How to Get a Guy Who Has a Girlfriend

Steps
1
Find a male who is in a relationship, to whom you are genuinely attracted to. It is possible to steal a boyfriend you are not attracted to, however if the boyfriend stealing is being performed as revenge on a girl you dislike, be warned, it could backfire!

2
Establish some sort of contact with the boy, if at all possible. It can be for anything, homework/work help, advice on something, whatever, but make it something where he will be helping you, but won't have to go out of his way to do so. If it's a major inconvenience, he may say no.
3
If you feel that the guy actually likes the girl then talk about her, but keep the conversation light. Act like your happy for him and then if he starts talking about her again, act kind of disappointed. Don't use smiley faces or 'lol, lmao, etc.'
4
Whenever speaking to him keep the conversation light, and let him do almost all the talking. Show him how much you enjoy listening.
5
Thank him for whatever he has done for you, even if it is of no real help. Compliment him on how well it was done. Tell him that if he EVER needs ANYTHING, at all, then you are there for him
6
Continue conversation with him, be ready to listen to him moan about all his problems, especially relationship problems.
7
When he speaks about his girlfriend, remain positive about her, in general, however, take note of anything he mentions about her which he dislikes, and sympathize with him when he is upset, and remind him you will always be there.
8
Whatever quality he mentions he resents in her, become the opposite. He thinks she shops too much? Tell him you hate shopping. He's upset she doesn't like him watching football? Ask him to come to a match with you. He thinks she's too uptight? Engage in childlike pranks with him. But don't change yourself to much because he should always like you for who you are. If he is going to leave his girlfriend for you then he should be leaving her for a good reason rather than for a false personality. Just engage yourself in his hobbies.
9
Now is the time to bring out your sexiest outfits, he will be beginning to see you in a different light. Yet, do not engage in serious flirting with him at this point, it could harm your chances of him leaving her, as he will no longer see you as a challenge. Don't wear anything to short, be classy and don't show to much skin.
10
Find another guy. Anyone, preferably someone you don't particularly like. As he is beginning to see you in a new way, this will make him jealous. Tell him how happy you are. Now, when he moans about his relationship woes, reassure him there is better out there, and that perhaps she is overly high-maintenance. He should be at the tipping point of his relationship.

11
Dump the man you are dating. Tell him, and the boyfriend you are stealing, that your man wasn't who you thought. Stick to that story, and refuse to elaborate, to anyone, otherwise you could be caught out, as you are lying.
12
Phone the boyfriend you are stealing. Tell him everything is messed up with your man, and that you could really use him just now. Ask him to come over. You have your hot but natural look.
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When he comes over, stick to the he wasn't who i thought then say you would rather just forget about him and move on with your life. Ask him for a hug. Watch DVDs you know he likes. Pretend to enjoy them.
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DO NOT SLEEP WITH HIM. By all means kiss him, but sleeping with him would be counterproductive at this point.
15
Arrange an outing. Do not stick with the natural look. Show a little cleavage. At this point, his relationship with his girlfriend should be damaged beyond repair. Be honest about your feelings, if he does not at this point share them, then walk away. He may even follow.
16
If he does share them, let him set the pace with breaking it off with her, but be aware he may be playing you. Use caution.
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Once he has ended his relationship with her, you can really move on together, but remember if he left her, he could leave you.
18
When things start going better go even farther with the relationship.


Tips
If you are solely interested in sex, tell him this, do not follow the entire plan unless you believe their relationship is strong. Then sleep with him when he visits your apartment to comfort you.
Brush up on your flirting skills before you try this, you need to be able to flirt effectively and with purpose in order to draw in his attention
He might be hot, but he could be heartless. Be careful.
Be hard to get, boys love a challenge, do not give yourself completely to him.
If he is clearly interested in you but can't break the connection to the girlfriend you have to let him set the pace. Let him play it until you can't take it anymore or until he definitely shows he wants you. Then let on without ultimatum or emotion you may be done. You may have to resign yourself he loves her. If you are right that you are not stalking him and he is attracted, he will make the bold move.
If his girlfriend attends another school than both you and your crush, then you'll have better opportunity. While all is fair in love and war, make sure you are doing this because you like the boy. and not just to get back at his girlfriend.
In moments of high drama, and there will be many, realize he may back down and return to the status quo. Let it go. You are one step closer. Reassure him with hints or overt signs he can trust your feelings, and wait for the next crest of drama. Don't lose sight of who you are or he will lose sight of why he is more attracted to you. * Never forget this doesn't ride on your emotional ups and downs, it rides on his. Know what they are. If you think he is playing you he probably is. If you trust him, wait it out. If he wants to be with you and should, eventually he will be.
Make sure you are not friends with his girlfriend or you will feel guilty about going out with him!
Tell him you have to go so it doesn't look like you are desperate. Do it at the right moment when your in a deep conversation.


Warnings
If he loves his girlfriend, these tips will not work, there needs to be an initial attraction between you for a successful catch
Guard your heart carefully and listen to it, but don't forget about your head! And most importantly, if this guy is not happy in his relationship, don't let him use you to feel better until his relationship turns around!*If you try to get his attention, but he just doesn't seem interested, it's very possible that he might really like the girl that he's with. Give up and move on.
Remember that if a guy is willing to dump his girl to be with you, he's very capable of dumping you to be with the next interested chick who comes along. Guys whose heads can be easily turned are not worth the effort.
If the guy you want is dating your best friend, don't even think about it. No guy is worth losing your best friend over
Don't be the bad guy. Try and not talk down on his girlfriend. Just be the opposite of her. Your crush will like the "vacation" away from her, unless he really likes her. In that case, just walk away.
There is a fine line between helping a guy who likes you as much as you like him out of a pre-existing relationship, and acting like a complete whore. Think a little!
Don't sound or look desperate when talking to him or when being around him.
Most importantly don't flirt with him in front of his girlfriend, especially if she is your friend! There is nothing worse you can possibly do to someone and there is almost no way to fix it, so be smart!
If you do get him away from his girlfriend, he may still have feelings for the other girl. Remember, it may not last long because you could just be a rebound.
Don't just wear skimpy clothes and flirt to try and get him to think you're hot, because this is the base for a bad relationship; if he would just think you're desperate!
Don't try to hard for him to notice you, again he would only think you're desperate.